Stipulated: Planning for travel is a part of the travel experience. Begin.
Affirmative: Researching a place teaches us about its history, culture, climate, geography, cuisine, and customs, just as actually traveling to the place itself does. They are all part of the same experience.
Negative: Nothing is the same as being there. Does reading Chesapeake fill your mouth with soft-shell crabs, splash you with waves, hit your nose with salt air, warm your skin with the Maryland sun? Is taking a course on the history of Spain the same as touching a medieval castle wall or walking the Camino? Is reading about the Mona Lisa the same as seeing it in person?
Affirmative: No one is saying that planning replaces travel. I’m saying that planning a trip is a necessary stage in the travel process. You can’t build a house without drafting an architectural plan, and travel is not possible without knowing what’s feasible and desirable and then making a blueprint.
Negative: A blueprint is just an idea without construction to make it a reality. And the building process inevitably leads to changes when reality conflicts with drawings. Ideas without action are just daydreams, and daydreams are not reality.
Affirmative: Actually, planning takes the idea of a place out of the abstract and begins to make it real. Planning a trip allows me to picture myself in a place, to visualize walking around and experiencing it. If I have a ticket and a hotel reservation, then the travel experience suddenly moves from an abstract thought that may never happen to one that will happen. The travel experience begins when we start the research that leads to the reservations that enable us to go on the trip. Without a plan, it’s not real. But it becomes real through research and planning and booking tickets.
Negative: The trip has begun when you leave your home. Period. Until then, it can always be changed. It can always be canceled. You haven’t actually traveled until you’ve left home. Travel by definition means leaving one place to go to another. Planning is simply the drudge work that precedes the actual experience. Case closed.
Affirmative: No, case not closed. Travel: “to go on or as if on a trip or tour” (Webster’s).Have you never heard of traveling in the mind? Have you never heard of armchair travelers? Have you no imagination?
Negative: “Travel expenses are the ordinary and necessary expenses of traveling away from home for your business, profession, or job.” (IRS) Nowhere does the IRS say that planning a trip is an allowable expense.
Affirmative: Oh, come on. The IRS does not define travel for pleasure. They are only concerned about which dollars can be taxed and which can’t. But since you brought up numbers, think about it this way: A budget is an abstract concept until you put your expenses into a spreadsheet. Then you can see the big picture. You can see patterns. You can see how it all fits together. It’s the same with travel planning. Making actual reservations and putting them into a calendar makes it possible to visualize a trip and then make it happen. Just like capturing expenses to make a budget is an essential part of spending, making plans is an essential part of traveling.
Negative: Well, making a budget may be a responsible part of spending, but it’s not essential. How many people out there actually take the time to create and use a budget before buying something they want? Would we have a credit crisis in this country if everyone did that? And doesn’t all that planning take all the fun and spontaneity out of the actual experience, whether it’s buying something or going somewhere?
Affirmative: Planning doesn’t prevent spontaneity. Actually, it makes spontaneity possible! Making reservations and planning an itinerary doesn’t mean you have to plan out every moment any more than a budget dictates exactly what you spend where. But it gives you a sense of what is possible and some guard rails to keep you from falling into the abyss.
Negative: The abyss? That’s pretty hyperbolic don’t you think?
Affirmative: You’re the one talking about a crisis!
Negative: okay, okay. We may have to agree to disagree. It’s not that I don’t appreciate planning—I really do. I love having a framework to hang our actual travel on – to build around once we actually do start to travel. I think it’s necessary in the way that creating a to-do list helps me get things done or following instructions helps me put a piece of furniture together. But it’s not actually doing the things or building the furniture. It’s what you have to do first.
Affirmative: You know I can’t let you have the last word. I also appreciate spontaneity. And the full experience of being in a place and using all of my senses. Why else would I do all the planning to be able to travel? Planning without travel is, well, I guess that’s being a travel agent. But travel without planning is just fleeing. It’s not travel with purpose, and that’s what I think we’re doing, and what has the most value. Drafting an outline is part of the writing process, isn’t it?
Negative: um, well, I guess it’s supposed to be. Clearly I’m a renegade because I didn’t outline any of this!
Affirmative: grrr. Some editor.
This is what we’ve come to while we continue to wait for any kind of response from the Spanish consulate about our visas. Conversations like this. And planning. And revising our plans. And revising them again. And thinking about next year, when we vow to spend less time waiting for our fate to be decided by others and more actually seeing the world.
So what do you think? Is planning a part of the travel experience? (If so, we’re pretty much traveling all the time!). Let us know in the comments below!
When we hear from the consulate—or just give up and go to Spain on a tourist visa—you all will be the first to know.
(And thanks to Les Klein for posing this debate question.)